IS this the end??
Okay soooooo love is a funny thing. Last night I spent most of the night crying and same with today…I’m frightening back the tears as we speak….and why…for no reason likely
As you may or may not know I met Cherry on one of those internet dating sites. I wasn’t expecting to find someone and bam there he was. So last night I am talking to him and I get an e-mail so I go and check and someone from that internet site has sent me a message. I delete it right away because I have what I want and I’m not looking…so I tell him this and his reply is oh so you don’t want to meet anymore people. I of course say no I don’t…do you? And he replies..well I don’t know….so I ask him what kinda answer is that and again he says I don’t know…so I tell him that makes me really sad and ask him again do you want to see other people and he says I don’t know…..I let it go telling him that he is making me over think things and the more I think the sadder I get..to which he says I’m sorry………..but not yeah I’m sorry I don’t want to see other people.
So here I am with the help of spanky almost planning the freaking wedding thinking that I am going to spend the rest of my life with this man…and there is this possibility that he may want to see other people….okay there are the water works again
I will admit that the chances are pretty good that I am blowing this WAY out of proportion and that I am just over thinking everything………but I suppose there is a chance that I am right to….i know he loves me…..but what if???? I’m seeing him tonight…and I know that I have to bring this up to him….but I am soooooooooo afraid of what the answer will be….what if this is it….what if my dream suddenly ends….oh my oh my oh my……..okay crying at work not a good thing…
Do I not bring it up?? Just leave it out there as he was being silly and he knows that I should no there is no way he’d want to see anyone else. I know that he’d never be the one the break up and there is no way that he would ever cheat on me…we’ve had that talk.
No I know I can’t do that cause it will be sitting there nagging away at me and then I will just crack and well I don’t want that to happen now do i.
So I guess I have to sit him down and ask…do you really want to see other people and then tell him how I truly feel and see where things go from there……scary thoughts…and well I am the type of person that gets so stressed out over things that I get sick………..and well I’m almost there
Yeah so I see that he sent me an e-card from naughtycards.com and I know that it is going to be nice but part of me is waiting for it to be a break up card….cause I know they are on the site…isn’t that nice
Alright it is like 3 hours after I wrote all of that and I was going to rush home at my lunch break to read the card just so I knew what was going on…….but in the mean time we have been texting back and forth and well he doesn’t seem to acting any differently or saying anything out of the ordinary…even after I said I was having a bad morning he asked why when I said about last night he called me right away and asked what happened last night and if I was okay………..clearly doesn’t have a clue that I was upset at all………sooooo I guess that means that I am blowing this all out of proportion………but I think we still need to have the talk and well I am still afraid of the answer……………just now I’m only about 40% sure its going to be bad…..so there ya go………my stress for the day………..
As you may or may not know I met Cherry on one of those internet dating sites. I wasn’t expecting to find someone and bam there he was. So last night I am talking to him and I get an e-mail so I go and check and someone from that internet site has sent me a message. I delete it right away because I have what I want and I’m not looking…so I tell him this and his reply is oh so you don’t want to meet anymore people. I of course say no I don’t…do you? And he replies..well I don’t know….so I ask him what kinda answer is that and again he says I don’t know…so I tell him that makes me really sad and ask him again do you want to see other people and he says I don’t know…..I let it go telling him that he is making me over think things and the more I think the sadder I get..to which he says I’m sorry………..but not yeah I’m sorry I don’t want to see other people.
So here I am with the help of spanky almost planning the freaking wedding thinking that I am going to spend the rest of my life with this man…and there is this possibility that he may want to see other people….okay there are the water works again
I will admit that the chances are pretty good that I am blowing this WAY out of proportion and that I am just over thinking everything………but I suppose there is a chance that I am right to….i know he loves me…..but what if???? I’m seeing him tonight…and I know that I have to bring this up to him….but I am soooooooooo afraid of what the answer will be….what if this is it….what if my dream suddenly ends….oh my oh my oh my……..okay crying at work not a good thing…
Do I not bring it up?? Just leave it out there as he was being silly and he knows that I should no there is no way he’d want to see anyone else. I know that he’d never be the one the break up and there is no way that he would ever cheat on me…we’ve had that talk.
No I know I can’t do that cause it will be sitting there nagging away at me and then I will just crack and well I don’t want that to happen now do i.
So I guess I have to sit him down and ask…do you really want to see other people and then tell him how I truly feel and see where things go from there……scary thoughts…and well I am the type of person that gets so stressed out over things that I get sick………..and well I’m almost there
Yeah so I see that he sent me an e-card from naughtycards.com and I know that it is going to be nice but part of me is waiting for it to be a break up card….cause I know they are on the site…isn’t that nice
Alright it is like 3 hours after I wrote all of that and I was going to rush home at my lunch break to read the card just so I knew what was going on…….but in the mean time we have been texting back and forth and well he doesn’t seem to acting any differently or saying anything out of the ordinary…even after I said I was having a bad morning he asked why when I said about last night he called me right away and asked what happened last night and if I was okay………..clearly doesn’t have a clue that I was upset at all………sooooo I guess that means that I am blowing this all out of proportion………but I think we still need to have the talk and well I am still afraid of the answer……………just now I’m only about 40% sure its going to be bad…..so there ya go………my stress for the day………..
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